memories

Relationships

I know this is not the latest news however i still want to blog about it, about a week ago i chance upon an article on Glenn Ong and Jamie Yeo topic bout them on divorce and separation. I was shocked when i saw the article. Cause i can really remember when tie their knots, glenn was so happily in love that he goes to church with jamie blahh blahh blahh - if you happen to listen to glenn's morning show with flying dutchman on class 95 then you will know the DJ he is =p Okay now i'm typing this post as if they are my friendss. The reason for this separation was the couple growing further apart from each other? Did i get this correct? Please correct me if i'm wrong here :)

It really shows that it is really possible for this to happen, not because your spouse is involve in an affair but something that's so simple - growing further apart. I think this is so true especially as us living in Singapore with such a fast pace environment, so many activities we need to attend. It's no wonder couples are breaking up, lack of communication - can you imagine going back home from a long day at work, a place to relax...but still there's a need to talk to your spouse? And the last thing we would want is to be home with a nagging wife, not supportive of the things he does,a husband who doesn't help in household choress, simply sleeps away, or ended up "fighting" with one another because of the differences that may surface someday. Wooooo, marriage is indeed not easy and it's a lifelong commitment and extra effort needs to be in, in order to make it turn from caterpillar to a butterfly.

It's normally when we've a choice - freedom to choose, it's also the time we take forgranted most things, including Jesus dying on the cross for us - in fact He gives us a choice whether to receive him or not. So what do we do with this? How about our daily decisions?

pleasing everyone is impossible

posted by memories @ 11:25 PM